How to Eat Pussy Like a Pro: Everything You Need to Know (2021)

Do you want to know the master-key to unlocking a woman’s sexual satisfaction in the bedroom?

It’s eating pussy.

Now, whether you call it pussy eating, oral sex, cunnilingus, licking a girl out, going down on her, muff diving, or whatever else. It’s all the same and this article covers everything you need to know to pleasure your partner with your tongue and give her an unforgettable experience.

In this article you will learn

  • Why eating pussy is important
  • Hygiene & STI considerations with eating pussy
  • The best pussy eating sex positions to give your partner maximum pleasure

Why eating pussy is important

So why should you care?

Women do not orgasm as much as you might think.

A cosmopolitan survey showed that 69% of women were dissatisfied with their sex life, and over 70% have faked an orgasm.

A survey shows about women faking their orgasm

I know every guy’s response to that is probably going to be ‘not with me’, but the numbers are showing another story.

Face it, there is a high probability that at some point your partner has faked it with you.

So, how can you ensure you get her clenching her teeth and having some of the best orgasms of her life?

Not just through sex.

Less than 20% of women can orgasm through penetration alone.

Which means you need to learn how to use your fingers and your tongue.

In another study with over 25,000 women, only 65% of them say they usually always orgasm when sexually intimate (compared to 95% of men, by the way).

However, where it gets really interesting is the primary factor in women who orgasmed more frequently.

Yup, you guessed it; those who orgasmed frequently were more likely to receive more oral sex.

General statistics indicate that 70–80% of women require direct clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm and there is no better way to stimulate the clit, than with your tongue.

You simply must learn how to lick pussy.

If we were to poll girls on whether they would prefer to never have sex again or never have oral again, it wouldn’t even be close.

To make your woman orgasm, the way to do it most consistently is with cunnilingus.

You don’t need a six pack, lasting power, or a big penis.

If you’ve got a tongue and you got some time, you can give your woman the most intense orgasm she’s ever had.

I’m gonna show you the type of orgasm to make your ex crawling back begging for another chance.

The type of orgasm to turn your wife into a nymphomaniac who can’t get enough.

The type of orgasm that saves marriages.

I know it sounds like a lot of hyperbole, but stay with me, follow my guide and you’ll be the king of cunnilingus in no time.

You’re only reading this because you’ve got nothing to lose right?

Anatomy lesson

Know your way around your woman's pussy through this anatomy of a pussy

Now, before I jump into the art of cunnilingus, it’s worth knowing your way around your partner’s pussy before going down there, so here’s a brief guide.

Clitoris

The visible portion of the clitoris (also known as the clit) – the glans – is at the front junction of the labia minora (inner lips), above the opening of the urethra. It is a woman’s most sensitive erogenous zone and generally the primary source of human female sexual pleasure.

Clitoral Hood

At the top of her vagina is the clitoral hood, a little flap of skin that covers her clitoris. Think of it like our foreskin, acting as protection for her sensitive clitoris.

Labia Majora

The labia majora are a pair of rounded folds of skin and adipose that are part of the external female genitalia. What many refer to as their ‘flaps’, their function is to cover and protect the inner, more delicate and sensitive structures of the vulva.

Labia Minora

The inner lips that lie inside the labia majora, are another two small folds of skin that extend backward on each side of the opening into the vagina.

Urethral Opening

Slightly above her vaginal entrance, is a smaller hole called the urethral opening; this is where she pees from and for the purpose of oral sex will not need any attention.

Vagina

Her vagina is the elastic, muscular part of the female genital tract that extends from the vulva (the external parts of her pussy) to the cervix. It includes her G-Spot, A-Spot, and cervix.

Anus

Also known as her butthole. It starts at the bottom of the rectum, the last portion of the colon and can also be used for sexual pleasure.

G-Spot

The G-spot, also known as the Gräfenberg spot (for German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg), is an erogenous area of the vagina that, when stimulated, can lead to strong sexual arousal and orgasms. It is generally around 2-3 inches up the front (anterior) vaginal wall.

A-Spot

Technically known as the anterior fornix erogenous zone, it is located deep inside the vagina between the cervix and the bladder, a couple of inches deeper than the G-spot.

Cervix

The cervix is the lower part of the uterus in the human female reproductive system and is incredibly sensitive for most women. The rare woman might love having their cervix stimulated during masturbation and sex, but others will find any contact a source of discomfort or pain.

Hygiene & STI considerations with oral sex

Yes, there are less risks involved with oral compared to penetrative sex, but there remain risks.

Any skin-to-skin contact with the genitals is enough to pass a sexually transmitted disease (STD) or sexually transmitted infection (STI) on to your partner.

Through oral, it is still possible to either contract or transmit STIs such as:

  • syphilis
  • gonorrhea
  • chlamydia
  • hepatitis
  • HIV

The only way to best prevent the transmission of these STIs is through the use of a dental dam; a thin, flexible piece of latex that is an effective form of protection against direct mouth to genital contact during oral sex but still allows for stimulation.

However, they are not very prevalent. An alternative option is taking a condom and cutting it to a square/rectangular piece of latex that will cover her pussy.

Other things that may increase the risks of STIs with oral sex include having poor oral health – tooth decay, gum disease, bleeding gums and oral cancer, having sores in the mouth or on the genitals, or any other open wounds.

If you have anything questionable going on with your mouth, it is best not to engage in oral until it is cleared up.

Aside from the above, if you are sexually active, you should be getting screened regularly for STIs.

For STI screenings, the CDC advises yearly testing (at least), but really every time you have a new partner and are engaging in unprotected sex or cunnilingus you should go and get tested to be safe.

Beard & Stubble

The situation with your facial hair is definitely something you need to be aware of before going down on your partner.

The primary concern is shorter stubble which is tougher and sharper and can be a source of irritation and/or pain for some women.

You either want to grow it out longer or take it off completely – it is anything in between that causes problems.

But responses vary depending on women.

Don’t just take it from me, read opinions directly from seven different women.

Hands & Fingers

Outside of oral, as you will see with the recommendations below, it is highly likely your hands and fingers will also be involved.

Note that the skin in the vagina is the same skin you have on the inside of your mouth but it’s more sensitive.

So imagine someone sticking a dirty hand in your mouth, with uncut fingernails and a bunch of crap underneath them, and scratching against your cheeks.

Not nice, right?

Remember we are trying to turn her on, not do the opposite.

A few important things you should be doing:

1) Ensure your hands are clean

Wash them. You want your hands to be perfectly clean.

If you know you’ve got a chance of it happening, make sure you do it before you see her.

2) Cut your fingernails

When you go to finger a girl your nails must be non-existent. 

Get some nail clippers and cut them down so they are not protruding over the top of your finger edges.

And then…

3) File your fingernails

Cutting them won’t be enough, they need to be filed as well.

You will have noticed when you cut them, you are normally left with sharp edges.

All of these need removing.

With all of that out the way, let’s get into the specifics:

Pussy eating positions

The most-used ‘traditional’ position for eating pussy is basic missionary with the girl on her back and legs spread, you in between them and the step by step below is written with that in mind.

How to Eat Pussy Like a Pro: Everything You Need to Know (2021)

However, it is definitely worth considering other positions.

Face-sitting, sometimes known as ‘queening’ allows the woman to be more dominant and in control, thrusting herself into you at the angles and pressure she wants.

Here is a face-sitting position of pussy eating

Whilst eating her from behind – having her on all fours whilst you kneel behind her is another option.

How to Eat Pussy Like a Pro: Everything You Need to Know (2021)

Both of these positions can be more forgiving on your neck compared to the traditional missionary style and so are also worth experimenting with.

Step by step guide on how to eat pussy

Before we get into the how to, just two things to keep in mind.

  1. Don’t use porn as an example, guide or inspiration for eating pussy.
  2. It is important you do all of the below with enthusiasm.

Attitude is everything.

A lot of girls are self conscious and lack confidence about the appearance and/or smell of their vaginas.

Many find it reassuring if the guy is enthusiastic when they dive in and it allows them to forget their insecurities.

Make some (pleasurable) noises and tell her how much you love the look and taste of her pussy.

If your partner can’t relax and is uptight, you have lost before you’ve even started.

Step 1: Ignore the vagina

Yes, you heard right.

The first step on how to eat pussy is to ignore it.

The biggest mistake guys make in the bedroom is rushing it.

And eating pussy is no different, most men will dive straight to the clitoris to try to get her to orgasm as fast as possible.

As I have said repeatedly throughout this site (and will continue to do so!), you need to take your time.

No matter how good of a pussy eater you are, if she’s not turned on, she’s not coming.

It should come as no surprise to you that men and women’s brains operate completely differently.

There are no women who start gushing the moment they see an erect penis – so if you are one of those losers who sends dick pics to random girls, stop it.

To make her gagging for you, you need to build tension.

And you are going to do this by avoiding her pussy to begin with and teasing towards all the sensitive areas on her body.

Think about other erogenous zones, places that will turn her on, such as the insides of the elbows, the back of the knees or her inner thighs.

They could be different for every woman, so it’s one of those things you will need to adjust for.

Use your fingers and move gently across these locations, caress her, breathe across her and kiss her.

Pay attention to your partner and react accordingly.

Go everywhere except her pussy, her breasts and her lips.

Painfully slow.

Do this for 15 minutes and she will be squirming and writhing in the sheets, desperate for you to touch those sensitive spots we are avoiding.

The longer you can do this for and built to it, the more turned on she will be…

…And in turn, the harder she will come.

Step 2: Ignore the clit

I know it sounds kind of counter-intuitive.

You want to learn how to eat pussy and my first two steps are to ignore the two bits you thought you would be diving right into.

But stick with me here.

The clit is the most sensitive area of her vagina.

There are more than 8,000 nerve endings in the tip of the clitoris alone.

That’s double the number that are in a penis.

We will get there eventually, but you are going to start away from the most sensitive area of her body and work towards it.

Lick slowly, slowly, slowly, up towards her clit.

The longer you take, the better it is for her.

You could take 20 minutes, or 30 minutes.

You’ll see the longer you do it, she’s gonna start squirming around trying to get her hips in position to get her clit in front of your tongue.

She’ll be desperate if you do it long enough.

Don’t do it.

Don’t give her what she wants.

Keep building the tension.

Step 3: Clit city

Now that you’ve teased her enough and her pussy is building a nice puddle below her.

It’s time to lick her clitoris for the first time and relieve some of that tension.

And this is how you’re going to do it:

Long.

Hard.

Slow.

Soft.

Varied.

Change the speed, change the angles, change the intensity, your task is to find out how she likes it and what really gets her off.

Though the experimentation is necessary to begin with, once you find what works with your partner, stop switching it up.

And as she comes close to coming, don’t change anything.

You want to get a rhythmic style going until she orgasms.

Read your partner.

There will be telltale signs what you are doing is working, whether it’s her tightening up, moaning, or telling you.

Learn to gauge what she personally enjoys so in future scenarios with her you can go straight to what she likes.

Here are some different techniques you can try:

The Roundabout

The roundabout is exactly as it sounds; going around and around it.

Lick around and around the edge of her clitoris.

Try with both the tip and the flat of the tongue.

The Ice Cream

Imagine that first satisfying lick of an ice cream.

That’s what you need to be doing with this one.

Lick up along her pussy slowly with the whole length of your tongue.

The Flick

Use just the tip of your tongue and do a flicking motion, barely touching her clit as fast as you can.

Side to Side

As it sounds, lick across her clitoris from side to side.

Up and Down

Try licking up and down across her clit.

As you can see there are endless options to experiment with but that is the key; experimenting.

Even though the clit is tiny, different women have very different sensitive areas of it.

For example, some women will have an extremely sensitive left side of the clitoris and can’t feel anything on the other side and vice versa.

The only way you can find out your partner’s preference is with testing and experience.

Give each area and technique 30 seconds or so and watch the reaction.

See how she reacts and when you see what she is most enjoying, after 10-15 minutes go to licking her just like that and keep that going until she orgasms.

And then next time you’re with her, don’t go straight to her most pleasurable one.

Remember, at the beginning the variation is good, it builds tension and turns her on.

But again, as she comes close, switch to one type of lick at the same pressure and same speed, following through with a consistent motion until she comes.

And a reminder:

Yes, you want to experiment with pressure and speed but you always want to start softly and slowly.

Experiment very gradually increasing the pressure and speed.

If you start too hard or too quick you can completely ruin the moment.

You will never ruin the moment by starting too slow and too soft.

Always build up to it.

Step 4: Introduce fingers

Time for some finger play.

When it comes to making a woman orgasm, you’ve got two main points of focus.

The clitoris and and the g-spot.

Both can produce incredible orgasms by themselves, but when combined? 

Boy…

When you combine the g-spot and the clit orgasm by adding your fingers into the mix with your tongue, you’re going to a whole new level.

You’re going from an Audi R8 to a Bugatti.

Don’t get me wrong, an Audi R8 is good – they’re fun, no one’s complaining about it but let’s be honest, we all know it’s not a Bugatti.

So after you’ve taken care of cleaning your hands, and ensuring your nails are cut and filed (see hygiene tips above), this is what you need to do to find the g-spot:

Put two fingers in one to two knuckles deep, palms facing up.

An inch or two in, you’ll find a spongey area  that feels more rough or bumpy than the rest of the vagina.

That is the g-spot.

You’re going to stimulate it with the come here motion.

The most sensitive spot is going to be different for each woman so as always, you’ll have to do some experimenting.

Whilst keeping your licking constant and rhythmic, with your fingers try different speeds, pressures, depths, spots and watch her to see how she reacts.

Don’t change what you’re doing too quickly – allow her to really feel it and react to it.

Experiment with each spot, speed and pressure for at least 30 seconds.

And again, remember you can always go faster and harder but if you go too hard or too fast from the get-go you can ruin it and kick her out of the mood.

Always start slow and soft and gradually increase the speed and pressure.

After 5-10 minutes, do the same thing we did with the licking and get the licking rhythmic and constant.

Step 5: Reap the rewards

There’s a reason you are reading this article.

You want more sexual satisfaction in the bedroom for you and your partner.

You will see quickly the benefits of eating pussy the right way.

It is shocking how many relationship problems bad sex causes and getting this right will be one huge step to a happy partnership.

Give her oral, make her come – make sure you have some post-sex affection (research shows is it pretty much always associated with higher sexual satisfaction) and watch your relationship flourish!

What next?

Most men think sex starts when the sex starts – but it doesn’t, it starts way before that.

Now you have everything you need to get your girl in orgasmic ecstasy through oral this, take this knowledge and apply it.

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