Let's face it :
when our woman orgasms we feel like a man.
And when it doesn't happen or worse when we think she's faking it we feel utterly inadequate.
Am I not big enough?
Am I not attractive enough?
Does she not love me anymore?
Negative thoughts start flying through your mind uncontrollably. Your heart sinks.
In this article I'm going to cover the best positions for you to get her to orgasm every time.
First, a word of warning
Yes, in this article I'm going to teach you the best positions to make a woman orgasm.
And yes, you should learn them and try them.
when it comes to satisfying women in bed, penetration is NOT the most important thing for the vast majority of women.
You would have much more success if you only learned about foreplay.
Only around 25% of women report being able to orgasm through penetration alone (although that percentage would be much higher if everybody followed my advice.)
Why orgasms matter?
You're absolutely right to be concerned about whether your woman comes when you have sex.
Luckily you have me and I can teach you everything you need to know about making your woman orgasm 😉
Warning: Some women will find it hard to orgasm no matter how attractive they find a man, so don't take it personally, just learn as much as you can and enjoy.
Position 1: Adjusted doggy
This should be your go to position. When trying to make a woman orgasm through penetration the spot that you want to hit is her G-spot.
Any position that angles your penis to hit/rub this spot is good for bringing her to orgasm.
Although we all love normal doggy, it's not that great for this. There is more pressure on the rear wall of her vagina, which can be very stimulating for a woman, but generally not as much as her G-spot.
To turn doggy into adjusted doggy simply place a few pillows under her hips and have her rest on them from the doggy position.
Unlike doggy, you don't want your back up straight you should be leaning forward, your stomach almost against her back, this will angle your penis to hit her G-spot.
And don't be an idiot, you don't want the whole weight of your heavy ass pushing down on her. support yourself with your arms and knees.
You can also increase her enjoyment of this position by throwing a bit of domination in there, lightly pull on her hair or place your hand around her throat while you're doing it.
A dominant man is the most frequent turn on/sexual fantasy for women, bringing a woman to orgasm has much more to do with her mind, how she feels than the actual mechanical process, so this is very important.
Position 2: Tied up, spread eagle
Some women (some men even) are a little bit hesitant to try this one.
There needs to be a lot of trust and comfort between you two for her to be willing to try it, and to enjoy it when she does.
It's certainly not one for one night stands.
this one puts the feeling of being dominated for her through the roof.
Not only does this position ramp up the dominance, but there is literally nothing she can do while she's in it.
She doesn't have to worry about anything.
This is one of the best positions for a woman's enjoyment.
You must be very careful how you introduce it to her.
If you put pressure on her, telling her how you saw some random weirdo on the internet talking about how amazing it is and about how she's guaranteed to orgasm if she does it, then she finally agrees to it after hearing you go on about it for a week, but she feels really uncomfortable about it and is just doing it to shut you up:
This position works more because of the psychological effect it has on her, rather than the actual position itself. So if it's not really something she's into and the psychological effect it causes is discomfort and anxiety then it's not going to work.
Position 3: Cowgirl
The number 1 reason women can't reach orgasm is because of their state of mind.
And as discussed before one of the ways a woman's mind can block her from having an orgasm is anxiety.
There are a lot of women that find many sexual acts, even things that you find mundane and boring, to be anxiety inducing, especially if they're inexperienced.
The two sexual acts that the most women find the least anxiety inducing are:
- Missionary (unsurprisingly)
And the good thing about cowgirl is she's in control.
Meaning you don't have to worry about:
- hitting the right spots
- going hard enough
- going fast enough.
If she struggles to come in this position a couple of things you can try, that should at least make the position more enjoyable for her, if not bring her to orgasm, are:
- get her to get into a squat position instead of resting on her knees.
- get her to lean back while she does it so that your penis hits the right spots.
Position 4: Ask Her
No woman is built the same and there are some women who can only orgasm in one particular position. They actually find this very frustrating and often email me to ask me what they can do about it. But instead of worrying about how to change it, embrace it.
NOT WHEN YOU'RE HAVING SEX
Don't ask what's her favourite position, ask what position does she find it easiest to orgasm in. And then do what she says. Simple.
If she says she can't orgasm through sex then ask her what her favourite is.
Position 5: Switch routines
If you go through the same routine every time you do the deed.
A typical routine would be a little make out session while running your hands up and down her body, strip her off, a little fingering or licking her pussy to get her wet then straight to it in either missionary or doggy until you come. Sound familiar?)
Then this could be the problem.
Women who change positions during sex report frequently reaching orgasm at a 19% higher rate than women who do it in one. So mix it up fucker.
6 : Learn to arouse her
The last one is not a sex position, but rather a way to arouse her.
If she isn't aroused, none of the mentioned positions will work.
I've written a simple guide called the Master Lover Principle which will teach you to :
- mentally arouse her
- put her in a state where she is ready to orgasm
- and you'll be able to use any of the mentioned positions to give her mind-blowing orgasms.
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