13 Strange Sex Fantasies: This is What Women Fantasize About

13 Strange Sex Fantasies: This is What Women Fantasize About

We men sometimes wonder what women fantasize about.

And with good reason.

Research shows that some sex fantasies women have are kind of strange and disturbing.

13 Strange Sex Fantasies: This is What Women Fantasize About

Here you will learn what her top 13 fantasies are. Some are strange, disturbing, and very extreme (for example #9). Take a look:

“According to research, every woman has a secret sexual fantasy men know nothing about.”

Why You Want to Know What She Fantasizes About

Women have their own sexual fantasies, which they daydream or read about. And maybe they’d like it if they came true…

It would be very convenient if she were to tell you about her sexual fantasies. But, in most relationships, this NEVER happens.

These are the 4 Advantages of Trying Her Sexual Fantasies:

And if you don’t know your wife’s or girlfriend’s sexual fantasy, you won’t have these advantages.

So, what is a man to do?

You can find out from this article:

Why Women Fantasize (About Sex)

First and foremost:

You should know that women like to fantasize. They like it a lot, even.

How Kinky Are Women's Sex Fantasies?

Women like to fantasize about sex: from outdoor sex to rape fantasies.

It’s more bizarre than you think. In 1973 (!) a book was published, named “My Secret Garden,” by Nancy Friday. It’s a collection of fantasies women have.

The book shows that women fantasize (at least) as much as men do. You should definitely read the book if you want to learn more about what women fantasize about. The things you’ll learn are worth every penny.

But now:​

Before I tell you about the 13 most f*cked up fantasies, first let me tell you about this:

How Do You Know if She Really Wants Her Fantasy to Come True?

Guys, before you run to the store to buy rope and duct tape, read this;

Research also shows that 50% of the women who have submissive fantasies actually don’t want to play these out at all.

You do need to learn to see that difference.

A sexual fantasy is *NOT* the same thing as a sexual desire.

A Lot of Women Fantasize About Forced Sex, but They Don't Want to Be Raped for Real.

The things women fantasize about in bed, are not necessarily what women want in bed.

Do This in Order to Know if You Should Make It Come True or Not:​

What Women Fantasize About:

Most women are not the same, but funnily enough their fantasies are.

There are a few common sex fantasies that a lot of women dream about. Below you will find the 13 most bizarre (and most common):

Top 13 Sex Fantasies Women Have

1. Submissive Fantasy (Master-slave)

Forget everything you think you know about the sexual fantasies women have.

A LOT of women are turned on when they’re dominated: when you pull their hair, tie them up, or slap their butt.

And is your partner one of those women?

Then this submissive fantasy is perfect for you.

13 Strange Sex Fantasies: This is What Women Fantasize About

This is How You Know Whether She Wants the Real Thing:

This can turn a woman on immensely. And you can easily take steps in this master – slave fantasy, and keep making it more exciting. She can do nothing, except sometimes kiss your lips or your penis. She is NOT in control.

2. Fantasy of Being Raped

This is a more extreme version of the submissive fantasy, but a lot of women have it.

According to some studies, the fantasy of being raped is even one of the most common fantasies women have.

13 Strange Sex Fantasies: This is What Women Fantasize About

But, as you can probably imagine, a lot of women are ashamed of it. So, if she has it, she won’t easily admit to it.

Why Does a Rape Fantasy Make Women Horny?​

Do Not Confuse This Fantasy With Reality

In a fantasy, the woman can choose who the man is and how far it goes. In reality, this is different.

Women often don’t fantasize about this together with their partners, and that’s fine.

If you’d like to know more about the rape fantasy, this is a good article.

3. Threesome – With 2 Men or Women

Yes, I know. For you (like most other men), the thought of having sex with two women is amazing.

But sometimes, women feel the same.​

Some women fantasize about threesomes. With 2 men (mmw) or with another woman (mww).

But 1 thing is important:​

How Do You Know if She Really Wants to Have a Threesome?

This fantasy women have is relevant to the next one:

4. Sex with a Stranger

Time and time again, scientific research has shown that sex with a stranger is one of the most common fantasies women have.

The thought of uncomplicated sex is hot. A sexy guy she’ll never see again afterwards, who will allow her to surrender to lust completely, and focus on the moment.

How Do You Make This Fantasy Real?

5. Sex in Public

Sex in public, while you could be caught: a lot of women would love to try this. It makes them feel excited and adventurous.

So, it’s quite a mainstream sex fantasy, which most couples try at least once.​

If you’d like to know more, check out this article with the top 18 places to have outdoor sex.

6. Playing a Stripper

Undressing slowly for you, seducing you, turning you on and giving you the lap dance of your life.

Sounds like heaven, doesn’t it?

It gives women a rush, because it’s such a wrong profession, and a lot of people look down on it. This makes it a very naughty fantasy.

13 Strange Sex Fantasies: This is What Women Fantasize About

The nice thing about this is that it’s rather easy to make it come true. You can call just about any strip club and ask if you can rent a room with a pole for an hour or so, so you can let her strip for you.

Or, you can buy your own stripper pole (recommended). It costs a bit of money, but it’s worth it. And, hey — you might even get her to take a pole dancing class this way.​

7. Fantasies About Orgies, Group Sex, and Swinger Parties

Switching partners, being looked at and looking at others. Or even having sex with multiple people in one evening.

For some women, this is an enormous turn-on. See it as an extension of a threesome.

13 Strange Sex Fantasies: This is What Women Fantasize About

But it’s also a very big taboo.

So a lot of women will NOT easily confess to having this fantasy.

How Do You Know if This is One of Her Fantasies?

Watch the movie “Eyes Wide Shut” with Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise.

Plenty of moments to try and find out what she thinks. Especially if you let her know you’d find it exciting.

8. Make Your Own Porn Movie

Some women think making a sexy movie is very hot.

Why?

She knows this makes you very horny, and she can see that she’s driving you crazy. That is why it excites women so much.

How Do You Get Her to Make a Movie?

Tip: Don’t just leave the video lying around. A hard drive, secured with a password, is a good idea.

9. Masochism Fantasy

Masochism is when pain turns you on. So, it’s different from fantasies about rape or submission.

The pain enhances the experience of pleasure (through endorphins).

13 Strange Sex Fantasies: This is What Women Fantasize About

For example, maybe you (or your partner) have had a bruise somewhere after sex, because you’ve knocked into something. But you didn’t feel anything.​

3 Disturbing but Real Fantasies From the Book "My Secret Garden" by Nancy Friday:​

​Okaaaaay.

So, now you might understand why not all fantasies can also become reality.

In their stories, all 3 women indicated that they would like to experiment with pain during sex, but they didn’t dare tell their partners.

10. Being Dominant Herself

Usually, the man is dominant in bed. Most men like it, and most women prefer to be submissive.

But, a lot of women do have the fantasy of being dominant for once, and dominating the man.

It might sound strange, but you can actually do this some time, for some variety.

11. Being Paid for Sex

This is a more extreme version of the stripper fantasy. There are even sources that say that this was “in” amongst the nobility in the 19th century.

In any case, some women fantasize about prostitution. About being paid for sex. It’s taboo. Kinky. It’s wrong.

12. Sex with a Young Man

This is a very popular fantasy women have, especially if they’re a bit older. And the other way around, young men also have this fantasy (why do you think “MILFs” are so popular?)

It’s a pretty big taboo for an older woman to date a younger man. In public, this is even looked down on. And this is one of the things that make it so exciting for her.

13 Strange Sex Fantasies: This is What Women Fantasize About
A famous practitioner of this fantasy...

And if you think it’s not very common, you should read those stories of teachers who got in trouble for having sex with their male students.

Those lucky bastards.

How to Seduce Older Women with Their Secret Fantasy

If you already have a relationship, this fantasy won’t help you much, but it will if you’re single.

If you’re trying to seduce an older woman, you can use this fantasy by giving her small subtle hints or getting the thought into her head.

Now on to the next one:

13. Being Looked at While You're Having Sex

All our lives, we have sex when we’re alone. In the bedroom, with the curtains closed and the door locked. Or, if we get excited when we’re outside, we go home to quickly go to bed ALONE.

This fantasy is the opposite of that.

How Does It Work?

This sex fantasy is a more extreme version of the “sex in public” fantasy. With that fantasy it’s more about the excitement of being caught, but with this one it’s something else getting women horny.

The audience often has a part to play in these fantasies. They applaud. Even enjoy it. This makes the woman feel like she’s putting on a show. The better she performs, the more impressed the audience is. And the more excited she gets.

An Example of This Fantasy

How Can You Make This Fantasy Come True?

When Should You Look Into Her Sex Fantasies?

What you do with her, and when, depends on your relationship with the woman in question.

Option 1: It's a One-night Stand

In this case, everything is already new: the woman herself, her personality, her body and the first-time sex. So you don’t have to introduce fantasies or make them come true to give the sex a boost.

The first time is already exciting enough.​

Why the One-night Stand is Special

But for some women this IS the ideal opportunity to try things out in bed that she doesn’t dare do with a long-term partner.

Why?

Women have a fear of being thought of as a slut.

They don’t want you to think that she’s easy or a sex maniac. And if you’re in a relationship with her, she definitely doesn’t want you to think of her as a slut

With a one-night stand those rules suddenly don’t apply anymore. If she won’t see you again, she can really let herself go.

Tip: Read this article with 23 one-night stand tips to learn how to have an amazing one-night stand.

Option 2: It's Your Girlfriend or Wife and You're Already in a Long-term Relationship

Then it’s safe to have a conversation about this.

Sharing a sexual fantasy often makes the excitement come back. Just like in the beginning. She has butterflies in her stomach again, and kissing alone turns her on.

Look:

Women are hesitant to share their fantasies. She wants to feel safe with you. So in a relationship she can share (if it is as it should be).

She may have dropped subtle hints about her sexual fantasies. But, at the time, you didn’t know what to do yet.

What if She Didn't Give Any Hints?

If your girlfriend or wife has not given you any hints about her sexual fantasies (or if you weren’t listening properly), look at the above list with 13 fantasies again.

There’s a good chance that hers is on it.

The next step is to find out what her preference is.

And that is easier than you think.

How to Find Out What Her Fantasy is

Now that you know the most common fantasies, you can find out if some of those turn her on too.

What to Do With Her Fantasy

Now that you know what her fantasy is, it is time to do something with it.

That’s why I made a few articles that teach you, step by step, how to have good sex with her, while making a fantasy come true.

Click on one of the links below, to read the article:

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