Don’t have a sex playlist yet? Or do you lack the inspiration to create one yourself?
Make sure you don’t end up in awkward situations with the wrong sex music.
In this article you can discover everything you need to know about sex music, the top 20 sex playlists and the top 30 sex songs.

If you want to know more about sex music, you can read on below:
4 Practical Sex Music Tips
1. Be selfish to a certain degree. Just choose something that you think is chill. If she doesn’t like it, she’ll let you know.
2. When you’re putting the playlist together, make sure it’s not too short. Stick to a minimum of about an hour.
- Tip: If you're going to have sex for longer, make sure the website is on autoplay. This way the next song will start automatically, and you can have unending sex with music.
3. A sex playlist is for in the background. So make sure it’s not too dominantly present at a high volume. You can keep communicating or do dirty talk at the same time.
4. Put your own (Youtube) sex playlist together. I have specifically linked all individual songs to Youtube, so that you can add them to your own playlist.
Now you are ready to work on your own taste in music.
Develop Your Personal Sex Playlist
You know very well that good sex music is relaxing during sex, for you and for her. Still, 9 out of 10 guys are too lazy to put together a decent sex playlist.
So they use Google to look for ‘best sex music’…
But unfortunately these aren’t the best playlists.
This is a shame, and with this article I want to make a change.
First, it’s important to know which sex music genre you like. Of course, your (special) personal taste can deviate.
The 6 Most Common Sex Music Genres
- Slow R&B and Hiphop
- Deep House
- Lounge/ Relax
- Soul/ Jazz
- Classic
- Indie Electronic
I have divided the top 20 sex playlists by genre below, for your convenience. Discover your favorite genre of sex music.
Top 20 Sex Playlists
Indie Electronic
Those were all the sex playlists. Now on to the sex songs.
Check all the songs in my top 30 sex playlist on the youtube channel of Don of Desire
Top 30 Sex Songs
1. Fuck you all the time (Shlohmo remix) – Jeremih
2. Flight Facilities – Crave You (Adventure Club Dubstep Remix)
3. I Like – Jeremih ft. Ludacris
4. Frank Ocean – Thinkin Bout You (Live on SNL)
6. Sex on fire – Kings of Leon
7. Tiesto & Don Diablo – Chemicals
8. Michael Calfan – Treasured Soul
9. Aquilo – Human (Marian Hill Remix)
10. Alina Baraz – Art Of Persuasion
12. Magic – Coldplay
15. Trey Songz – Touchin Lovin
16. Trey Songz – I Invented Sex/Say Ah
17. Jai Paul – BTSTU
18. Miguel – Adorn
20. Jeremih – Birthday Sex (Andrew Luce Remix)
22. Goldroom feat. Chela – Fifteen (Oxford Remix)
23. Solange – Losing You (Cyril Hahn Remix)
24. SoMo | Ride (Official Video)
25. Chris Malinchak – So Good To Me
27. Justin Timberlake – Suit & Tie (Oliver Nelson Remix)
28. John Mayer – Free Fallin’ (Matoma & Nelsaan Tropical Mojito Remix)
That was the top 30. But there is ONE song missing….
There is a special reason for this.
Most Popular Sex Song
The XX – Intro is the song that has been added the most often to the category sex playlists on spotify.
If I think a chick and a song are realy awesome, we use a website that keeps playing the same song on a loop.
- Extra tip: Keep using the silences at the end of the song to go to the next level with the sex. It's also a way to tell how long you've been going at it, which can be practical.
Aside from specific sex music, I also want to recommend a few artists to you.
Artists for Sex Music
Somo (Covers Slow R&B)
Xavier Rudd (Lounge/ Relax)
Ed Sheeran (Top 40)
John Legend (Top 40)
Chet Faker (Electro)
Jack Johnson (Top 40)

To complete this article, I’ve also included two playlists for when you wake up.