Approximately 75% of Women Can’t Orgasm from Sex and 15% Have Never Experienced an Orgasm.
When I first came across this research, I was reminded of South Park: Bigger, Longer & Uncut.
Yes, I know it’s strange, but there’s a funny moment where Chef tells Stan to “Find the clitoris”
And the truth is, he was onto something…
Research suggests many men have trouble satisfying their partners.
In fact, around 15% of women have never experienced an orgasm from either themselves or their partner.
And if you’re not sure what to think of that number, consider this. When men were asked the same question, only 2% of men claimed to have never experienced an orgasm.
So, why is that number so high for women?
It could be any number of things.
Embarrassment about their body
Shame about feeling pleasure
Not actually enjoying sex or stimulation with their romantic partner
Or possibly just never having the right person or tools helping them out.
One common reason women don’t orgasm from sex nearly as often as men (who orgasm approximately 96% of the time) is because most men seem to get off quickly, leaving women high and dry when it comes to an orgasm from intercourse.
The 15% who have never experienced an orgasm might be missing that certain touch from their partner.
Or may simply find it much more difficult to achieve orgasm through penetration.
The fastest way to right this wrong is with the tongue.
A little bit of oral stimulation can go a long way.
Want proof?
Well, while most women are lucky to have a few orgasms a year, lesbians are having the time of their lives. This study found that 84% of lesbians are experiencing orgasms more often than not.
It should come as no surprise. Lesbians, being women, know what other women want and need.
And what most want is for you to slow down and stimulate her clitoris.
While fingers and toys can be great for this, the clitoris is VERY sensitive, it’s usually the size of a pea yet, contains 8000 nerve endings. That means, if you’re too rough, too dry, or stimulate it in the wrong way it can be very unpleasant for her.
The tongue, however, doesn’t risk any of these problems, it’s big, soft and provides its own lubrication.
It’s not all about the clitoris either, learning how to properly bring a woman to climax can dramatically improve your sex life for both you and your partner, and by extension your relationship.
Whether you’re using your hand, tongue or toys, giving your woman the stimulation she needs is your best bet for keeping her coming back for more.
