There is nothing more exciting than having public sex.
Just letting unquenchable lust lead you to a remote and private piece of nature where you can fuck like animals.
Would you sometimes just like to leave behind that boring bed and switch it up with something more exciting, but you have no idea where to go for the best outdoor sex?
Then do continue reading…
Before you let yourself go completely, it’s helpful to know where it wouldn’t be too clever to have outdoor sex.
These aren’t just obstacles that make sex outside tricky, but they can actually also make it exciting.
Thus:
Be sure to first read our guide on how to fuck without getting into trouble.
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Why Outdoor Sex is Good for You
Let’s face it: most people just have sex in bed. Nice and warm, no hassle and above all: safe.
But that’s not why you are here, let alone why you are reading this article.
You want more. Something extra. You want them to NEVER forget sex with you.
- The adrenaline from knowing you can be caught having sex, makes it much hotter.
You have to be quick and careful if you want to be unseen.
And if you fuck her outside, you are actually saying that you can’t wait until you get home. You want to take her on the spot.
Guess what that does to women…
It gives them an enormous ego boost. Because she feels desired.
And that’s also good for you;
For if a woman feels desired, she gets a lot naughtier. You can take her harder and she can enjoy it more. You bet that she’ll be prepared more often to jump into the bushes with you.
In addition, a little change of environment can give your sex life a real boost. Switching it up and variation are things that women like in bed.
Fantasizing together creates a bond. And if you really do it, it will be your secret.
What if She’s Afraid?
Doing something which isn’t actually allowed and where you run the risk of being caught. Not every woman dares doing that.
Or does she?
4 Steps to Let Her Get Used to Outdoor Sex
1. Let Her Imagination Run Wild
Every woman has sexual fantasies. Women get excited by their own imagination. The chance that she’ll let you fuck her in public is way bigger when you get her super horny.
Outdoor sex is intimate, bold and an incredible turn on at the same time.
- Start exciting her imagination when you're fucking her somewhere safe, at home for example.
- Tell what you want to do to her outside and where.
Once that fantasy is in her head, she is more willing to have real sex with you in public.
2. Sex in Front of a Mirror
This also excites her imagination, especially since she now has an image of it.
It’s just one step further from normal sex in bed.
3. Make Your House More Public
The next step is to make yours or her home less private. So she can get used to it and feel how exciting it can be.
For example:
- Open the garden door or curtains, so the neighbors can hear you.
- Take her up against a wall next to an open door or window so she can’t moan too loud.
- Go for a quickie in your bedroom while you have visitors in the living room.
- Have sex on the kitchen counter or washing machine.
4. Switch to Outdoor Sex
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Make sure you are at the perfect spot with her for outdoor sex and excite her by telling her how much of a turn on it would be to fuck her right here.
Don’t touch her yet, but let her imagination do the work first. - Explain that this would be the perfect spot to start kissing.
- Let her imagination run wild and start fingering her
- Slowly keep exciting her so she will feel safe and trust you to continue going one step further.
Here are the 18 best places:
Top 18 Outdoor Sex Spots for Exciting Public Sex
1. Sex in the Car
The number 1 spot for outdoor sex is the car. This is still somewhat safe, especially if you have tinted windows. Or if you let them fog up.
You can drive anywhere and have sex without having to rush. She can blow you while you are driving, sitting on top of you in the car (tip for in the winter), or if it’s a warm day, take her up against the car or on the hood.
2. At Festivals
All hail the festivals! You can frequently find amazing secluded spots. Let the music get you excited, find the most hidden spot or dark corner that you can find.
3. The Cinema
While it is dark you quietly finger her until she comes. Super Horny, because she can’t moan.
If you really have guts, you reserve a seat in the back row and go all the way.
4. Public Transport
At the back of the bus, you won’t be bothered by prying eyes so you can get an amazing blow job or finger her.
Even better is the train.
If you’re lucky and you’re in an empty compartment, take her standing from behind.
The risk of being caught is high, but oh so fun.
5. In the Yard
Romance under the stars in a tent or on a lazy chair. The neighbors are asleep after all, right?
6. Alley or Hallway
It sounds a little wrong, but having sex in an alley can be great. And often easier than you think. You can find dead ends or dark alleys everywhere. The hall of a flat or apartment can also be super sexy.
7. Sex in the Fitting Room
What do you mean, shopping with a woman is boring?
Some fitting rooms seem to be made for sex. If you want to fit something it’s very annoying when you can’t see from the outside whether it’s taken, but that’s perfect for sex.
The mirror and hooks to hold on to are just the cherry on top.
8. At the Office
Are you often alone at the office late at night or do you have the key to your office building? Then why not try a quickie on your desk?
Even more exciting: Do you have your own room where you can close the blinds? Then you don’t even have to wait until your colleagues leave, you just need to be quiet…
9. Do It in an Elevator
Better suited as foreplay than the real thing, but no less fun.
10. Park, Forest and in the Dunes
The risk of being discovered is very high, but the excitement of outdoor sex is so worth it.
Tip: Pretend you’re spooning to enjoy the beautiful weather, meanwhile you have lifted up her skirt and fuck her softly while nobody realizes anything out of the ordinary.
11. On the Balcony or Roof Terrace
Recommended because it is easy and you’re a little sheltered.
12. The Beach
This HAS to be on the list. You can have a romantic fuck on a white deserted beach or just a wild quickie, standing in the sea while everyone can see you.
13. Toilet of a Restaurant
Maybe not the cleanest option, but a kinky one. And you have enough time during dinner to arouse her, already playing with her and making her wet.
14. Swimming Pool or Jacuzzi
In the pool you are already wearing next to nothing, so why not let your hands have a touch. You can go all the way in the Jacuzzi or steam room. Nobody will notice.
And hey, the changing rooms of the swimming pool are not just for changing.
15. On a Boat
Did you know that there are a lot of lakes, ponds and ditches where you can sail through with a small boat? Ideal for a wild fuck.
The busy waterways may perhaps not be the best option, but in most cities you have spots that don’t attract that many tourists and sheltered bridges where no one sees you and you can still have nice outdoor sex.
16. Ferris Wheel
If you are lucky and you don’t have to share a gondola, you should take advantage of it!
A ride in the Ferris wheel does take about 20 minutes. Enough time to have her wet before you are high in the sky.
Do watch out, the rickety compartments aren’t the best place for wild sex.
Sometimes you even have special “VIP” cabins with tinted windows. Almost like it was made for it!
17. In a Meadow
Two asses high, that’s how high the grass should be, so that no one bothers you during a steamy sex session.
18. The Plane - Mile High Club
Not in the toilet, because it really is too tiny, but under a blanket during a long flight is just as fun and perhaps even more exciting. Welcome to the Mile High Club!
Can’t wait to try out these tips?
Don’t do it without reading this first…
Guide with 9 Tips for Undisturbed Outdoor Sex
Sex outside can sometimes sound like more fun than it actually is.
And that is not because of where you do it, but because of your preparation.
That being said…
1. Choose a Smart Location
An impulsive fuck can only happen if you already know about a location nearby in advance. Spending hours searching for the perfect alley, can really create quite a damper on the horniness you actually want to achieve.
Just like fucking in the nettles…
2. A Quickie is Possible
Outdoor sex is not ideal for a sex session that takes hours. There is no time for extensive fingering, licking or sucking.
Of course you don’t need to skip it completely, but a quickie would be great for outdoor sex. If it normally takes a lot of time to make her come (while licking her), you better skip it.
3. Take a Blanket
Do you still prefer the missionary position? Then take something to lie on. A blanket or a coat for example. Also useful if you have to dive out of sight or want to cover something.
4. Check the Weather
You want her to be soaking wet, but not from the pouring rain.
Check the weather forecast.
5. Try to Be Quiet
Keep primal screams for fun indoors or if you REALLY are alone. The last thing that you want is for someone to think that there’s a wounded animal in the meadow.
6. Do Not Wear Bright Colors
Even if you lie well hidden behind the bushes, when you are wearing a red shirt, you are still quite visible. A brightly colored shirt screams for attention.
“Look at me! I’m fucking in the bushes. Hey! We’re here!”
Uh yeah you DON’T want that.
7. Choose an Easy Position
Is your public hump so impulsive, you didn’t think of wearing comfy clothes?
Then this is the solution:
- Lift one leg up. Then she only needs to pull out one leg.
Doggy-style is also handy for fucking outside. It spares you from rough grains of sand where you do not want them.
8. Make Sure You Really Are Alone
Making a sex tape yourself is fun for your private collection, but being caught fucking on the internet isn’t appreciated by everyone.
Privacy is a must. So check at least once whether someone is around before taking your clothes off. And look up to check for security cameras.
- Use a condom
That saves a lot of hassle (especially for her: leaks etc.).
And if you are still disturbed at the decisive moment, you can easily lift up your pants and run away.
9. Get Bonus Points if You Can Make Her Cum
Good sex (even in public) is essential for a relationship.
It all starts with making her horny. The more excited she is, the harder she cums and the more she will fall in love with you. Then you continue with the foreplay (fingering and licking). Then the sex.
Variation in this is fun:
Most important of all (and particularly for outdoor sex) is that you can make her excited so she’ll come fast.
