How To Get More Blowjobs From Your Wife Or Girlfriend

Which food causes women to stop giving blowjobs?

Wedding cake​

Ok bad joke

But...

It is common knowledge that the frequency of blowjobs in a relationship is inversely proportional to the length of that relationship

By that I mean:

The longer a relationship lasts the less blowjobs a man gets. 

Does it have to be this way though?

Actually no.

If you play your cards right you could be getting more blowjobs now, than when your relationship first started.

In this post I'm going to show you how to win the hand with that 23 unsuited you're holding.

I'm going to give you 9 ways of getting more head from your significant other.

More...

I teach you many ways to please your woman on this website.

Post, after post, after post about how to show your wife or girlfriend the time of her life.

But sometimes:

You just want some head.

You work hard, you put in the effort for her, you’d just like her to show you a bit of appreciation every now and then​.

Well then this post is for you.

Sick back.

Undo those jeans

and get ready to have your dick sucked

9 things you can do to get more head

The whole reason your woman isn’t giving you as much head as you’d like is because she doesn’t enjoy it

Think about it, you didn't google "how can I get my wife to watch more Orange is the new black"

You don't need to

You don't need to encourage people to do things they enjoy.

So

In this post I'm not only going to teach you how to get your woman to give you more head, I’m going to teach you how to get her wet at the thought of it.

First things first

​Before we talk about how to get her excited about sucking your dick, we need to first talk about what you're doing that makes her hate it.

​So lets cover where you're fucking up.

1. Wash yo' dick

Have you ever typed "blue waffle" into google images? (WARNING: Do not do this unless you don't plan on eating for the next two weeks)​

If you have you know where I'm going with this.

If you haven't then all I'm going to say about it is, it is many images of horrible infected vaginas. Does that sound like something that would turn you on?​ Does it sound like something you want to suck on?

No?

Then what makes you think she would not be repulsed by your stinky junk?

Wash your shit

Every day, twice a day. Especially under the foreskin. And if you know your about to get a blowjob, but the action hasn't started yet, jump into the bathroom and give it a quick rinse under the sink.

2. No skull fucking

(Unless you KNOW that's what she's into)

This may come as a surprise to many of you, because almost all guys watch too much porn, but most women actually don't like to have their faces raped.

If you're trying to convince you're woman to give you more head, then​ let her do it in a way that she enjoys.

This doesn't mean you can't nudge her in the right direction, if she's doing something wrong.​

But use your words to guide her.

Not a hand on the back of her head.​

3. Don't be a little bitch​

There are two things that get a woman's vagina drier than a Steven Wright stand up, sjögren syndrome and...

Men who complain

It doesn't matter how bad it gets.

It doesn't matter if you haven't had your dick sucked in two years.

It doesn't matter if you haven't had sex in two years

Complaining to your woman about anything is never the answer.

It only makes things worse.​

4. Use the right words

This one is slightly less common than the others, but it can be a problem in some relationships.

Women as a group are more sensitive to words than man.

For example, you may have noticed that some women you know will get offended by the word cunt, regardless off the context it's used in.

Unless you're Australian, of course.

Another example is the word slut.

In todays world it is generally not a big deal if a woman sleeps with a lot of guys, some women may even boast about it.

But...

If the word slut starts getting thrown around even the most promiscuous woman will get offended and deny, deny, deny.

Well certain terms for giving oral sex can have the same emotional impact on women. And if you use that term to ask for it, you will get an automatic NO, even though she may have been happy to oblige, if it was put a different way.

The safest way to avoid this problem is just to use whatever words she uses when she talks about oral.

The safest way to avoid this problem is just to use whatever words she uses when she talks about oral.

If she says "sucking ​dick" you say "sucking dick"

If she says "giving head" you say "giving head"

If she says "can I lick your lollipop?" then you are dating an unstable girl and I suggest you get out of there as fast as possible. ​

Next: How to get her to enjoy giving head

Now you're not making your situation worse, lets talk about how to get her excited about licking that lollipop.

5. Spontaneous Pussy Licking

First you want to induce reciprocity.

When you give something to someone they automatically feel obligated to give you something in return.

Whether you ask them for something or not.

In fact even more so when you don't ask them for anything.

They will get a feeling of debt and sooner or later will get the urge to repay you.

So thats exactly what you're going to do.

You're going to give.

You're going to give without expecting anything in return.

Really

You can't cheat at this, if you do it with the expectation of getting something back in ​future, it will be obvious. You have to be happy with the thought of not getting paid back in the future. 

Paradoxically this will mean you actually do get paid back.

Many times over​

So you're going to give two things:

  • Make out sessions without pushing any further than simply kissing
  • Oral sex without expecting, or even allowing things to go any further.

In basically 100% of relationships when guys do either of these things it is with the expectation that sex follows soon after.

When you make out with her for 5 minutes out of the blue, then get up and go back to​ whatever you were doing before, or when you lick her pussy, make her orgasm, and then say no to her when she aggressively tries to give you a blowjob, or asks you to fuck her...

You are doing something most women have never experienced.

You will shock her.

I know it sounds counter intuitive to turn down a blowjob when she is trying to force herself upon you, but you should look at it as an investment​, sacrificing a blowjob today will lead to 10 blowjobs in the future.

That is how to get blowjobs, but once you are you still have to play your cards right to make sure they keep coming.

6. Show her you enjoy them​

A frequent complaint from women when giving head to men, is the men playing dead.

Imagine

You're going down on a woman

You've watched The Ultimate Guide To Eating Pussy and you're giving her your best moves​

But she is giving you no feedback whatsoever and after 45 minutes you look up and she's not even looking at you, she's watching Gorden Ramsey on the TV

It wouldn't feel that great would it?

You probably wouldn't be that enthusiastic about giving your lady friend more oral sex in the future.

So make sure you're not doing this to her.

Never stay silent & never watch cooking shows.

Show her that you enjoy her sucking your dick

Moan when something feels good

Or even better

Tell her:

"It feels so fucking good when you suck me like that"

7. Reward her to encourage more

Once she has given you a blowjob, you must always reward her.

By rewarding her when she sucks your dick you are teaching her that the action of giving you head leads to positive emotions.

Imagine a lab rat, in a cage with two buttons a red one and a green one, when the rat presses the red one he gets an electric shock, when he presses the green one he gets a nice big piece of cheese.

It won't take the rat long at all to figure out whats up, he'll stop pressing the red one almost immediately and will start pressing the green one as often as he can.

The same goes for blowjobs.

Reward her every time she gives you head​ and you're teaching her she gets a nice piece of mature cheddar every time she presses that button.

If you have a good relationship with your wife or girlfriend, the best rewards you can give her are simply compliments and attention, so make sure you always compliment her afterwards and stay with her giving her your full attention.

The occasional actual treat afterwards, like cooking her a meal for example, won't go amiss either, but these are extras, the compliments and attention are the essentials.

Ivan Pavlov used to ring a bell just before he would feed dogs and got them to the point where simply ringing the bell would have them salivating.

You can do this too 😉

8. Bullshit Compliments

If you get all of the of the previous steps right, not only will your woman start giving you more blowjobs, but she'll start to enjoy it, to look forward to it.

Now that you are getting more blowjobs you want to start getting them when you want them.

When you googled how to get more blowjobs I imagine you had a certain scenario in your mind.

Maybe it was you coming home after a long day of work and as you collapse into the couch your partner comes and undoes your jeans and gets to work herself.

You can make this happen.

To make that day dream a reality you need to use something I call "bullshit compliments"

A bullshit compliment is giving someone a compliment for something they haven't done yet.

I'll explain what I mean:

Lets say you want her to give you a blowjob immediately after work, but she actually ​gives you one a few hours later when you're in bed.

You are going to compliment her as if she did give you the blowjob after work.

"I love how you surprised me like that​, when you saw that I had had a long day at work, I love you for that"

You have now given her a reputation to live up to and if you have done all of the previous steps correctly, she will want to live up to it and will start giving you blowjobs after work. 

I just suggest you have a shower first, remember rule number 1.​

9. Frame it right

Some women love to give blowjobs, other women hate it.

Yet they both have a dick in their mouth.

It's ​the same physical sensation for both.

The only difference is how they frame it in their mind.

If a woman has it in her mind that giving blowjobs is what sluts do, if she feels like you or others will respect her less if she does it, than she is never going to enjoy it​. 

It doesn't matter how clean your dick is

It doesn't matter how much you moan and tell her how good it feels.

She's never going to like doing it.​

However

If she sees giving you head as bringing you close together, if she sees it as something special that shows you how much you mean to each other, how strong your love for each other is.

Then she can enjoy it even if you haven't washed for a day ... or two

(I don't suggest testing this)

​This is why the rewards and paying attention to her are so important, it shows her that it is special, that she is not just another girl sucking your dick.

This might not be something that's important to you, but it is to women​.

Remember that.

Be conscious of it whenever you're talking to her about this sort of thing, it is why the moaning and rewarding work so well, this is what they communicate

And remember if you want to try new ways of manipulating persuading her, you should be doing it with this frame in mind.

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