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How Do You Make A Woman Horny? Use These 10 Simple Tricks & Tips

make a woman horny

I will now share some of my most unconventional and strange tricks to make a woman horny.

Some may even call them "manipulative". And you know what?

They are.

So here are my 10 brutal tips for making her horny quickly, without her even realising:

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These tricks are only for you if:

  • You're in a relationship and you want to have sex more often. You want it to be wild sex again, like before.
  • You're in a relationship and you want your wife or girlfriend to do more sexy things for you.
  • You're single, but you have dates and you go out a lot. You want to learn how to have sex with a woman you've just met.
  • You're single, and there's a girl you like (maybe you're already seeing her) but you don't know how to handle the part leading up to sex.

Here is what you will learn:

  • What turns women on, and the steps you have to take before turning her on (if you don't, you will look weird).
  • How to turn a woman on with 1 simple trick, something that women tend to use to make you fall in love.
  • How to make her think of sex so she'll get sopping wet - without her realising what you're doing.
  • Why you shouldn't use regular dirty talk, but dirty talk LIGHT + 2 examples you can steal from me
  • Sexting tips + examples
  • How to be a great kisser + instruction video with 2 women
  • 3 erogenous zones you should absolutely avoid if you want to turn her on quickly
  • Step-by-step plan for an erotic massage
  • Answers to the questions: "How do I turn my wife on" & "How do I make a chick horny?"
  • A bonus cheat sheet on how to make her come more easily after you have turned her on

​What turns women on?

​Before you learn tricks, it's important to know what gets women horny.

Look:

Making her horny is part of seducing her. I call it the 3rd ingredient. You need it if you want to sleep with a woman, or if you want to start a relationship. But it's the last of the 3 ingredients. You have to do the first 2 before turning her on.

good sex pyramid

Attracted & Comfortable is the foundation of making her horny.

To the right you can see the 6 steps for getting better in bed. Getting her excited and horny is the second step in this pyramid.

Read this article to understand the full system.

If you're in a relationship you can feel free to skip this part, but if you're single, you should pay attention as you read on:​

3 Ingredients of seduction​

1

Making her feel attracted

The first thing you do is make sure she's attracted to you. She has to like you in order to want to sleep with you or want a relationship with you.

If there's no attraction, you'll end up in the friendzone.

2

Making her comfortable

Once she's attracted to you, you want to establish a connection, build trust and make sure she feels comfortable with you.

Without this, you'll look like a creep.​

3

Turning her on

Turning her on or making her horny is the last thing you do.

If you do this without 1 of the other ingredients, you'll look weird (if 1 is missing) or creepy (if 2 is missing).

​So you should remember, that if you want to make a girl attracted to you, you should start at the base. You have to attract her and make her comfortable. Only then will you start turning her on.

More information about attracting her and making her comfortable

The 10 tricks for making a woman horny

#1 Use your voice to make her comfortable and excited

Your voice is the most important tool you have for making a woman excited and comfortable.

Every man has it, but most men use it in the wrong way.​

Take a look at these 2 extreme examples:​

Example bad voice (0:35)

What makes this voice so annoying?

  • Too fast
  • Too high

Example perfect voice

What is it about this voice that turns people on?

  • Very slow
  • He makes use of pauses
  • Deep
is a deep voice important?

And if you want proof that women love a voice like that... To the right you can see a screenshot of reactions on YouTube:

So how do you get such a voice?

As you can see, there are 2 elements. First there is the depth of the voice, and then the speed.

​If you want to have such a sexy voice, focus on the speed.

If you focus on speaking more slowly, you'll automatically start talking in a lower pitch.​

​Bonus tip: Check this video from  Elliot Hulse if you want a better voice.

​#2 Turn her on by playing hard to get

Yes. we will use a trick that women have perfected, against them. Well, against them, we'll just use it to get them into bed with us.

Look:

​There are 4 reasons why she'll want you if you play hard to get:

1. ​People are vain (and especially women)

If there is 1 thing people want, it's to be thought of as special. Everyone wants people to think they are special, nice and goodlooking, because it enhances our self-confidence, and it's good for the image we have of ourselves.

When you get frustrated because there is something you can't have (and when your vanity is hurt) something very strange happens. Your brain has a sort of mental reflex, which will make you try even harder to get the thing you couldn't have.​

2. Shortage principle

During economy class, you may have heard about supply and demand. 

  • Little demand + a lot of supply = doesn't have much value
  • Little supply + a lot of demand = has a lot of value

This is how it works with people. We are attracted to things that have a lot of value.

3. Social proof

how do you turn a woman on?

People are the biggest bunch of sheep. And especially women

Lust and attraction are not 100% personal. In fact it's the opposite. Because we appreciate the things others want a lot more. For example, you're more likely to go eat at a restaurant that's packed than one that is empty.

4. Investment

I used to be a professional a poker player. Do you know one of the first things poker players learn? To fold a bad hand. Which can be very difficult if you've already invested a lot of money in it.

It's the same way with women. If she invests more time in you, she'll like you more, and it will be harder for her to let you go.​

How to make a woman horny by playing hard to get

Start by using the examples above (let her invest & surround yourself with other women).

Here are a couple of sentences you can use to turn her on:

  • "You're pretty nice and stuff, but do you really think you'll get me in bed with this kind of behavior?" (if she's annoying).
  • "Haha, if you keep behaving like this you'll sleep on the couch tonight." (for men with a relationship)
  • "Maybe it's better to buy an extra vibrator for yourself, because you can forget about sex."

Please note: these sentences are meant to tease, and that's also the tone you should use. There's something else that's very practical about this, and you'll learn about this in the following point:

​#3 Make her think of sex and get her sopping wet

How would it be if all you had to do was ask a woman a question, and the thought alone would make her horny?

It's possible, and it's also very easy.

​Try thinking about what a woman thinks of if you ask her 1 of these questions:

  • "What do you think about them cutting down the rain forest in Indonesia?"
  • "When was the last time you had really mindblowing sex?"

There can be no question about which of these 2 questions will make a woman more horny.

So this is something you can start doing on purpose. Ask questions that will make her think of good, exciting sex, and she will get herself horny without you having to do anything else.​

​#4 Make it your little secret

Time for some tips that will also work if you're in a relationship.

Okay, look:

One of the most exciting things you can do, is establish a little secret between the both of you. This works especially well if you turn her on in public.

Example:

secrets to turning on your girlfriend

Imagine, you accompany your girlfriend to a birthday party of one of her friends. You're in the kitchen together, talking to other people while you're preparing drinks.

Then, while your girlfriend is talking, you slowly push a button on the small remote control in the pocket of your jeans.  

This remote control will make the small vibrator that's inside her tremble softly. While she's talking to other people. She will give you a secret look that says 'that was mean' and she'll squeeze your butt.

These kinds of things are great before foreplay. A nice long time in advance. This gives her even more time to long for you.

Other examples:

  • She can wear a skirt without panties
  • You can slide your hand into her panties while she's on the phone

#5 How you can turn her on with dirty talk LIGHT

​Before you decide to just pull out all the stops now that you've read 'dirty talk'...

STOP.

There are many kinds of dirty talk. And not all kinds are suitable for every situation.

If you're walking in town together, you can imagine that you should not just start saying the most raunchy and explicit things. 

Please note! Dirty talk is a technique that should only be used if you're already in a relationship or if you've already slept with someone once. Using dirty talk if you've only just met her will DESTROY your chances with her, because you will be too sexual too soon.

Look:

You should use another kind of dirty talk to turn her on.

Incomplete dirty talk to make her horny

​You have to keep it incomplete. Put thoughts in her head.

For example:​

  • "You're being very naughty.. and you know what happens to naughty girls..." (If she asks "What?" you'll say "You'll find out soon enough.")
  • "I will grab you and slowly push you up against the wall. Hard, just so it doesn't hurt. And then I will slowly breathe against your neck, while slowly stroking my other hand over your arm... and then I'll kiss that place of your neck, where it feels so good..." (and then you cut yourself off abruptly). 

Bonus tips:

1. Combine this with tip #9.

2. Do it in a public place, and whisper it softly and slowly in her ear. Make sure you speak slowly, like we discussed in tip #1.

3. Continue this roleplaying game (she is the naughty girl) when you come home later. When you say you're going to do something, you should do it.​

#6 Turn her on by sexting

​Sexting is an ideal way to drive her crazy. You can always do it, women love it and you can use it to turn her on without even being around.

4 Common sexting mistakes:

  • Don't send pictures of yourself, and especially no 'dickpics'
  • Don't be a jerk and share any pictures she might send you. That's really the most pathetic thing you can do as a man.
  • Only do it if you've already had sex before
  • Don't be too explicit

In the future there will be an extensive article on sexting, but for now here are a couple of short examples:

Yup. That's how easy it is.

Now that we have discussed some things you can do to make her horny outside the bedroom, the last 6 tips are for IN the bedroom.​

#7 Learn how to be a good and sexy kisser

Kissing is cool. Women think it's sexy. And they're lying if they say they don't judge you for it.

how important is kissing

Look:

Hundreds of women complain about their boyfriends or husbands who are bad kissers. 

How do you do it right?

There are a few elements that make a good kiss. 

  • Little spit (swallow every 5-10 seconds)
  • Relax your lips. (The most important thing)
  • Slow. The slower, the better.
  • Use a LITTLE bit of tongue. Don't just jam it in there.
  • Sometimes teeth to suck on her lip as extra.
  • Do it in bits of 5-10 seconds. So 5-10 seconds of kissing, pull back, swallow and another kiss of 5-10 seconds.

To the left you can see one of the best videos on YouTube about good kissing. Pay attention to the 6 points above while you're watching the video.

If you can kiss your wife or girlfriend this way, it's guaranteed to make her horny. She'll even compliment you on it.

#8 Avoid these 3 erogenous zones if you want to turn her on quickly

erogenous zones

Of course, touching her is important. It's the most commonly known way of turning a woman on. Everyone knows is. The trick is to be SUBTLE about it.

Look:

If you're obvious about trying to make her horny, she'll see right through you. And in some cases she'll stop herself, because she doesn't want to 'seem too easy'.

So what is obvious touching?​ And which 3 zones should you avoid?

  • Touching her breasts.
  • With your hand in her panties. Front and back.
  • Rubbing her ass.

If you avoid these 3 zones, to the very last moment - and by that I mean, when she's naked and you've already had an hour of foreplay - she'll be hornier than you ever could have dreamed. 

Why it works?

It's a variety of 'playing hard to get'.​ You are turning her on by touching places that are not typical erogenous zones (arm, outer legs), so that she'll only long for you to touch the real erogenous zones more.

#9 Turn women on by showing who is boss (and who is submissive). 

One of the most popular fantasies among women, is the fantasy of being dominated in bed. Perhaps you have experienced it yourself, because it turns a lot of women on if you're dominant in bed.

​Below you will find some tips to apply dominance outside the bedroom, in order to turn her on more:

Please note! A lot of men make this mistake:

  • They think that if a woman likes being dominated and for you to call her all sorts of crazy things IN the bedroom, then they must like the same thing outside of the bedroom. So they treat her bad and its only right they get dumped or slapped in the face.
  • You should realise that you should ONLY be dominant when it comes to your sexual relationship. It's a ROLEYPLAYING GAME. Outside the bedroom, this game is over.

How to use dominance successfully outside the bedroom

how should you act dominant with your girlfriend

These are the 2 easiest moves:

1. Push her up against the wall
  • Grab her, and SLOWLY push her towards the closest wall.
  • It's okay if the wall is a few meters away.
  • Keep a hand behind her head, so that she doesn't hurt herself
  • Gently push her up against the wall, and whisper something in her ear, kiss her neck etc.
2. Pull her hair
do women like their hair pulled

If you grab her hair closer to her head, it won't hurt.

  • The important thing with pulling her hair is that you do it close to her head. Otherwise it will hurt.
  • Once you have a tight hold of it, you can slowly pull it backwards (so not all in one tug). This will make you come across very dominant.

The next trick is just about the opposite:

#10 Give her an erotic massage (but not intimate)

If you're already in the bedroom, you should give her an erotic massage first. A lot of men make the mistake of jumping on top of their wife or girlfriend right away, once they're in bed. 

And that's a shame. Because if you take you're time, she'll get even more turned on.

​It's the ideal moment for a massage with massage oil, because she has to wait even longer. It's also a kind of playing hard to get.

Here are a couple of tips for a good erotic massage:​

Step-By-Step Plan Erotic Massage


  • Use massage oil. It's essential.
  • Avoid erogenous zones, like her breasts and the area between her legs.
  • Slow. Slow. Slow.
  • Make sure you massage places like her shoulders, her upper arms, her forearms, her hands, her feet, and the outside of her upper legs.
  • Massage for at least 20 minutes. Work from the top to the bottom and back again.
  • Then you can continue with oral sex.
  • For variety, you can go between her legs (after 20 minutes of regular massage) and then penetrate her from behind.

Here is another article with 15 erotic massage techniques.

What do you do after the massage?

The step after the massage is foreplay. 

What you want to do here, is slowly finger her and lick her, until she has an orgasm. It's important to do this in the right way. 

Because if you've gone through all the steps above, and then mess up while you're licking her pussy, that will be a very big bummer.

That is why I've developed The Master Lover Principle.

It's a simple trick - consisting of two steps - that will help you drive a woman crazy during foreplay. And not just that.

Afterwards she will literally be addicted to sex with you (and only you).

Would you like to know how it works?

Click on the image below, enter your email address, and receive The Master Lover Principle right away, for free and anonymously:​

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​I also provide the answer to 2 frequently asked questions below:

“How do I make my woman horny if we’ve been in a relationship longer?”

This is a question that is often asked by men who are in a relationship. So whether you are married, or whether it's about your girlfriend, that really doesn't matter.

Look:

It's normal to have less sex after a while. It's difficult to hold on to that excitement you felt when you first met. So it will get harder to make her horny after a while.

But there is a solution:

​I've been in a relationship for 2 years now. And it's still as good as when we first met. Maybe even better.

I'll tell you how I do it:​

  • 1. Constantly keep seducing her. Above we talked a bit about making her attracted to you. This doesn't just apply if you're single, but maybe even more so if you're in a relationship. This will make a woman feel special and desired.
  • 2. Don't be with her constantly. It's sometimes better to take some distance and NOT see each other. This will make you appreciate it more when you are together, and she will be more horny too, after some time has passed. 
  • 3. Stop doing the same thing over and over. This will make everything boring. I'm talking about sex positions, places, where you go out to dinner or what you do every evening (sitting on the couch is not very exciting). You should bring more variety to your (sex) life.
  • 4. Get better in bed. Learn new tricks, positions, ways to make her come (squirt) etc. Here in this article you can find an overview.
  • 5. Take the time to make your girlfriend horny. Look: If you and your girlfriend or wife have known each other for a while, you need more time to make her horny. And you'll need more time to get horny yourself. So it's very important to use the 10 tricks described above. And it's especially important to do it SLOWLY.
  • 6. Start with a massage (tip #10). There's a good chance you are NOT doing this yet. Take the time for her, then give her an orgasm during foreplay, and then you can move on to sex. Download the cheat sheet above for step-by-step foreplay tips.
  • 7. Learn sexting. If you're in a relationship, sexting is an easy way to keep things exciting. Read tip #6 closely.

“How do I get a girl horny? (So she’ll want to sleep with me)”

First of all, you should read this article with 23 tips for an AWESOME one night stand.

If you're asking this question, you may be a little younger. It's important not to go too fast. Things you shouldn't do:

  • Force her or put pressure on her.
  • Extreme dirty talk (this can be a little too much for young women)
  • Sexting
  • Touching her erogenous zones too much
  • Being dominant. If you don't know what you're doing, it's better to practice on a more experienced woman. 

If you want to learn how to make a girl horny on a date or in a club, you should pay attention to these things:

  • Focus on the tone of your voice (read tip #1 above again)
  • Use tips #2 and #3 to make her think of sex and make her attracted to you at the same time.
  • Touch her in the way you learned in tip #8 (also check the link with that tip for a good video about it
  • Now you are ready to kiss her. Tip #7 teaches you how to do that right.
  • After you have kissed 1x, STOP kissing. Kissing decreases the tension. From now on, you should keep pulling away when she tries to kiss you. This will make her chase you more.
  • Go to a room where you can take it further (your bedroom).
  • Slowly let her take your clothes off, one item at a time. You go first every time. So your jeans off, and then her jeans off.
  • Then use tip #10 and tip #9. From that point on you'll be golden.

The step after turning her on, is making her come during foreplay...

This is the most important step.

If you can't make her come, you've put in all that effort for nothing.​

Then it'll be an ANTI-CLIMAX.

To make sure you do it right, I have something practical for you:

"The Master Lover Principle, To Make Her Addicted To Sex With You (and only you)

This will teach you to make her come easily.

The most powerful orgasm she's ever had.

And afterwards, she'll want nothing and no one else.​

Click on the image below, enter your email address, and The Master Lover Principle will be sent to you right away, for free, and anonymously. 

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Charles Black
 

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Shane - December 4, 2018

Hey charles, your content is always amazing and appreciated man!

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