Top 8 Reasons Why Watching Porn Is Bad For You

All alone behind your screen with tissues, when you haven't had sex for a long time? You're completely done with it.

You want to spend this time and energy on beautiful ladies in real life.

With the help of this article you can find out if you have a porn addiction, and it will also give you 8 reasons to stop watching porn.

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Before we begin, consider this:

  • If you want to change something, the most important thing is knowing WHY you want to change it.

The why will be the drive in moments when you struggle. If there's no why or a good reason why, you might slip up ONCE. And if you do slip up once, there's a good chance that more times will follow.

So in this article I will purely focus on the WHY and not on the HOW. In the future I will write another article, about how to quit watching internet porn. 

Before you can start solving this problem, I want to discuss a few things with you first.   

  • What exactly is pornography?
  • Is there really a problem or are you not actually addicted?
  • How do you get addicted to internet porn?

What is pornography, and how do you get addicted?

Pornography is the display of human sexual behavior, meant to generate sexual arousal. 

Source: Wikipedia

Research has been done with rats, to see how an addiction is formed. And it goes as follows…

Coolidge Effect

What happens when you put a male rat in a cage with an eager female rat? First you'll see them fucking all over the place. Then you can see the male rat generally getting enough of this specific female rat. Even if she wants more, he's had enough.

On the other hand, if you replace this female with a new female, the male is once again full of energy and ready to fuck her. You can keep repeating this process, until the male is completely exhausted.

  • This is called the Coolidge effect; the automatic reaction when there's a new partner or experience. 

This powerful automatic reaction to a new sexual experience/ partner is the reason for your addiction to internet porn. You see new porn videos every time, so you masturbate a lot and come often. It's that simple.

You're reading this article right now, because you think you're addicted. But is it really an addiction?

When are you addicted to internet porn?

If you're reading this article, you're probably very curious about the answer to the question: 

  • “How much is too much?”

There is no specific amount to indicate when you're one of the addicts. 

It's the same thing as asking a food addict: “How many minutes have you spent eating food? ” In this case there is no specific number of minutes which indicates whether you're addicted or not. 

In order to determine for yourself whether you have an addiction or not, you can ask yourself the following simple questions:

  • Does it influence my life in a negative way?
  • Have I lost control of it?
  • Do you prefer watching porn to having sex?

If the answer to these questions is 'yes', assume that there's an addiction which is going to be solved. 

Before you read on, I want you to write down all your personal reasons, why your internet porn addiction has a negative influence on you. Check the following exercise for this.

Exercise: Personal Motivation To Quit

Answer the following questions

  • Why do I want to quit?
  • What are the negative consequences of my addiction?
  • What are the advantages if I stop completely?

This way you'll establish deeper personal reasons, which can make it easier to quit.

So far the intro. Now let's start wth the 8 most important reasons.

The top 8 reasons to end your internet porn addiction

Some reasons will be obvious, and others will be new to you. The most important thing is that you'll have reasons which motivate you at times when you're struggling. 

1. Your Social Life

The addiction is not something you're proud of. The masturbation sessions get in the way of you being the best version of yourself, who is wiser, funnier and more socially intelligent during interactions with your inner circle. 

  • The addiction will make you neglect connections with family and friends. This is because your brain is conditioned in such a way that it wants to see as much internet porn as possible. All the time you spend not doing this is seen as a waste of time. Or you might already be thinking of the next time you jerk off.
  • Then there's the fact that your sex drive is satisfied by internet porn, and not by a hot chick in real life. This will make you socially limited or even deranged. You don't like social interactions anymore, or you even avoid them because you're afraid of them. 

And if you stop your addiction....

  • You will spend more time on having healthy and loving connections with your friends and family.
  • And you'll be very motivated to look for a real woman to kiss and fuck. 

Apart from the consequences for your social life, you should also consider the negative influence on your mental and physical health. 

2. Mental and physical health

If you have this addiction, you'll find that it has an influence on your mind and body. 

  • Firstly, you'll develop a fear of intimacy. Watching porn contributes to the fact that a lot of men are incapable of behaving honestly and intimately around women. Despite this, they do feel the desire to feel loved.

    This is because, in pornography, the sexual needs are more important than sensuality and intimacy. This limits you in developing an emotionally intimate relationship. 
  • Another mental problem is that you'll start to see women as objects to satisfy your sexual needs with. 
  • Thinking that women like being fucked violently, because the chicks in the porn videos often pretend to like that.
  • An internet porn addiction also ensures you have less or even no desire to have a healthy physical development. There's no longer any reason to go to the gym. No reason to take care of your hair and make yourself look good.

    Why is this? Because porn will never reject you because of how you feel or how you look. 

These were the mental and physical negative effects if you should continue your addiction. 

If you stop watching porn, you'll have the following advantages.

  • Integrity and loving behavior. A sense of personal integrity is restored. When you experience this integrity, you'll open yourself up to experiencing love for yourself and others again.
    You'll also stop projecting your fantasies from the porn videos when you're around women. 
  • Emotional expression. You'll feel better in your own body again. If you quit watching porn you will leave emotional insensitivity behind, and become a person who shows his emotions more easily. You'll learn to be less stuck in your own head, and live more from your heart. 
  • Sexuality. When it comes to sexuality you will transform from mental masturbation and physical remoteness to real intimacy. You'll be able to enjoy the moment. 

The level of energy you have determines how your brain and body function. Check out the following argument.

3. Masculin Energy

If you stop jerking off on a regular basis, you'll get two wonderful things in return:

  • Energy. You'll feel better, stronger and fresher. Exactly the opposite of how you feel after jerking off.
  • Drive. A higher level of testosterone will give you the drive to do more.

These two things will give you the motivation to chase your dreams and live the good life every day. Think of:

  • Earning money
  • Going to the gym
  • Creativity and passions
  • And spontaneously talking to that horny chick from your porn video on the bus and getting her to sleep with you. You may just finally get yourself a girlfriend or a fuck buddy.

To go one step further with the horny chick from your porn video..

It's even possible that, after a certain amount of time, you will be so much more attractive that she'll look into your eyes and try to arrange it. 

"No, I can't believe that…"
But it's true.

I'll say more about your attractiveness in the following argument to stop watching porn.

4. Your attractiveness

I present you with a simple comparison. What do you think ladies find more attractive?

  • A man who jerks himself off to internet porn in a dark basement way too often, and doesn't even dare to look a chick in the eye when he's outside. 

Or

  • A man who watches little to no porn, has a high level of testosterone, is very lively, earns (a lot) of money, goes to the gym, lives with passion and dares to look chicks straight in the eye.

I think it's very obvious that it's the second option.

But if you quit your addiction, your attractiveness isn't the only one that will change, hers will too…

5. Her attractiveness

If you quit your addiction, you'll instantly start finding women more attractive. One of the greatest revelations of your new life style is how you'll see women. This will change completely.

  • A woman's smell or beautiful skin is often enough to make you feel attracted to her. Your sexual instinct will come back, and you'll really start to desire women again. 
  • You'll also start to have fun, and start being attracted to women you would have dismissed before. You will also see and admire the women who don't have your perfect porn star bodies. You'll be amazed by what women you'll find attractive, and for what reasons. 

This is what a man on a forum said about the change of her attractiveness and beauty:

porn is bad

​How awesome is that? I assume that you want this too.

Speaking of attraction. If you're addicted to internet porn you'll notice that you're not attracted to 99% of women. You can read the reason for this below. 

6. Strange standards for women

Internet porn will give you unrealistic standards for women. If you watch porn you'll think this is the norm.

You only want to get with this kind of ‘perfect’ chick, because you don't feel attracted to others.

This will cause a lot of insecurity, and aside from that it will stop you from having many adventures with 'imperfect ladies'. And if you don't watch internet porn, this won't be a problem.

Example
If you've ever woken up with a beautiful naked lady next to you, you might recognise this..

“She is so beautiful, intelligent, funny, ambitious, creative and horny, but….”

She has imperfection XYZ, a small blemish or she's asymmetric.

If you're already dissatisfied over something that small, you'll have a hard time in the future. 

The men among us who've had good sex before know that this is much better and more satisfying than your right hand. Those who don't know this yet and think that a quick round of masturbation is more satisfying… Check out the following reason.

7. Masturbation vs. Sex

There's no doubt that sex will satisfy you more than jerking off.

But why..?

“Because I can just quickly masturbate, come, and have the same satisfaction?”

If you think that. Fine, you should keep doing that. This article is purely for the men who have an addiction, who are bothered by it and want to do something about it. For the record, I do want to state that jerking yourself off every now and then is not a bad thing. 

There are three important reasons why sex will bring you more satisfaction:

  • You enjoy the whole process, instead of just the result. Jerking yourself off in order to experience that euphoric feeling of coming as quickly as possible will only give you pleasure for a few seconds.

    What if you can feel that pleasure from the moment you feel like having sex until a few minutes after you come.

    Here you can check out the 6 steps you have to take to have long and good sex like a sex god. This means that you'll go from a few seconds of intense pleasure to half an hour, an hour or even several hours. 
  • You'll have better and harder erections with women. Porn dulls your sexual stimulus. So if you haven't watched internet porn for some time, you'll notice that you get excited as soon as she touches you.  

    The sex will get more and more intense, powerful and pleasant, so that you'll get erections you'll never get if you just jerk off.
  • The level of intimacy during the sex will get so much more intense. If you, like most men, started watching porn at a young age, you may never have experienced intense intimacy. This is because you've sexually numbed yourself with porn.
  • If you stop you'll also be a lot better at sex, because you'll be more in touch with both your bodies. You'll have less or no fear of failure and you'll be more free.

Aside from these consequences, I also have a specific reason for if you have a girlfriend.

8. Problems with your partner

The problems that are caused by an internet porn addiction:

  • Erectile dysfunction. It starts with a lower reaction to porn websites. Then the libido will decrease. Finally it will be impossible to have an erection.

    Researchers have shown that 50% of men (Average age 25) have erectile dysfunctions with partners. They don't have these problems when they watch internet porn.

    If you stop watching internet porn, there is a good chance that the erectile dysfunctions will go away. ​For young men it's 4 to 5 months, for older men it's 2 months. If you have trouble getting a hard erection, you should read this article with 13 tips.
  • Being emotionally unavailable for your partner
  • Lack of patience with your partner
  • Quickly getting bored with your sexual partner. This can lead to cheating, a divorce or undesirable sexual situations. 

These were the top 8 reasons to stop watching porn. Add the reasons above that apply to you to your personal reasons, from the exercise you did.

Now you know why you want to quit, and you're ready to go through the steps to accomplish it. This website will contain an article on this soon.

Would you like to know more? Check out this interesting blog:

Now that you're working on quitting your internet porn addiction, I want to teach you a new skill.

A skill that is essential if you're going to have amazing sex:

Discover The Master Lover Principle

The Master Lover Principle is a simple trick, consisting of two steps. If you do this with a woman in bed, she won't just get more wet, but she'll also come very hard and be screaming so loud you'll be lucky if you don't noise complaints.

And the best thing?

Afterwards she'll jump into your arms, so happy, because no man has ever made her feel like that before. 

The result?

She'll want you more and more, and she will get addicted to sex with you.

If you'd like to know more, I'll send it to your privately, in your inbox.

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Happy fucking 😉
Charles

Charles Black
 

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