You’ll probably agree when I say:
Giving a women a squirting orgasm for the first time is not easy.
But scientific research shows that almost EVERY woman can squirt.
And today I will tell you how exactly you can give her a squirting orgasm.
First, watch this popular video (13million+ views) that describes how to give a squirting orgasm:
What is Squirting or a Squirting Orgasm?
Squirting, a squirting orgasm, or female ejaculation are all different names for the same thing:
It’s a special kind of orgasm.
As she orgasms a woman will “squirt” a special kind of liquid from her vagina (see the picture).
Yes. That means:
Do you need any more convincing?
Is Squirting the Same Thing as Peeing?
To be completely honest.
I have no clue.
There are some studies that say this, and some studies that say that.
I do know that some research is nonsense. For example, this research with 7(!) test subjects, on which Vice based the conclusion that it was pee. It’s impossible to reach any conclusion with so few test subjects (normal researches use 100+ test subjects).
In my experience, the female ejaculate (which comes squirting out) is not the same as pee:
Important for women: Don’t be embarrassed. It may look like pee (it’s not), it will be 1 of the best orgasms you’ve ever had.
Can You Make Every Woman Squirt?
In my experience, most women have never really squirted before, but it almost always works (I’ve only ever met one woman who i couldn’t do it with).
If you – talking to the women reading -have never squirted before, fear not.
It takes a lot out of you. You have to be relaxed, you have to be excited, and above all: your boyfriend has to be experienced (a big problem with a lot of men, I hereby apologize on behalf of all of us).
If you’re a man, and you want to make your wife or girlfriend squirt for the first time, pay close attention as you read on. Because whether or not a woman squirts is 95% your responsibility.
Ultimate Guide to Make Women Squirt
Below are my 7 steps to make a woman squirt. If you do it well, you will succeed in just about every case.
If you don’t have a lot of experience with making her come yet, start by reading these 10 tips for fingering.
(If you don’t succeed, you’re not doing steps #1, #2, #3 well enough).
Step 1: How to Prepare
Preparation is ESSENTIAL. It’s important for regular sex, but even more so if you want to make a a woman squirt.
Before a woman can come (let alone have a squirting orgasm), she has to be EXCITED first. And that is only possible if she trusts you and feels comfortable with you.
Not every woman has all of these thoughts. But I don’t know any girl or woman who gets HORNY over bad hygiene.
What Do the Things Above Have in Common?
5 Things You Should Do to Prevent This
Also Make Sure You Have These 4 Essential Things Close at Hand:
Step 2: How to Make Sure She's Ready to Squirt
Now that you have prepared to make her feel relaxed, it’s important to have this relaxation under control the whole time.
If she feels uncomfortable at any point, it’s over and you can forget about it.
So How Do You Make Sure She Doesn't Get Uncomfortable?
1. Take Your Time
No one feels comfortable with someone who’s in a hurry. It causes unrest.
Are you used to just shoving her panties aside and going for her vagina as soon as her jeans are off?
Chill the hell out.
Giving a woman a squirting orgasm works better if you go slowly.
How Long Should I Take, Charles?
Keep this in mind:
2. Controlling Her Mentally
If she’s about to squirt for the first time, it’s important to more or less control her thoughts.
It may sound over the top, but if you pull it off, you can make her come on your command.
This is what you should do:
3. Make Her Comfortable
This is the point when you get started on foreplay. Make sure she’s on a soft bed. A pillow under her head, and possibly under her butt.
If you want to know why it’s important to make her comfortable, read this: 6 Steps For Getting Better In Bed – The Ultimate Guide
Step 3: Turning Her on & Massaging Her
Duration: 60-120 minutes.
At this point you are both on the bed.
You’ll turn her on now. Make her horny.
This is a small overview:
You can end the erotic massage by licking her pussy.
You can learn how to do that properly in the next step:
Step 4: How to Find the G-spot and Warm It Up
Duration: 15-45 minutes
If you want to make her squirt, you should stimulate the area around the G-spot (shallower than the A-spot).
Before you stimulate her G-spot, you should first:
Lick Her Pussy Like a Boss
If you can’t, or if you’re awkward, she’ll laugh. Or worse, she’ll hope you stop quickly because it hurts. This usually only happens to guys of 16, who do it for the first time. (You can probably understand why women fall for older men).
This is how to do it right:
Where to Find a Woman's G Spot
Look at the picture below.
You can find the G spot on the upper side of the vagina, about 3-4 centimeters inwards.
That’s about 1 or 2 phalanges.
How to Massage the G Spot
Please note. This is important:
Now it’s time to make your girl squirt:
Step 5: The Best & Most Simple Squirting Technique
Let the squirting begin:
You have licked her & fingered her G spot for 10 minutes. Now it’s time to give her a squirting orgasm.
Use the following squirting techniques:
Avoid These 2 Mistakes
There are 2 things that can happen now, which can make it go wrong and stop her from having a squirting orgasm.
1. Your Arm Could Get Tired
This happens to all of us. So it’s imporant to switch hands while applying the technique.
Make sure the new fingers are wet before you go inside.
2. "Stop. I Have to Pee."
If it’s her first time squirting, she’ll probably say this. That’s because the feeling of squirting is the same as when she has to pee.
You CAN’T prevent this from happening, so you’ll have to handle it adequately.
So what do you do?
Well done. Virtual fist bump for you. You have just made your girlfriend very happy.
There Are 3 Options at This Point:
Step 6: Squirting Orgasms During Sex
If she’s not too sensitive for further stimulation, now it’s time to give her a squirting orgasm during sex. The cherry on top.
It’s possible that she’s so excited that she’ll come right away, but it can also take 5-10 minutes.
Below you can see the position you should use:
Be aware of these things:
Staying Hard for Long Enough & Delaying Your Orgasm
During sex, it’s important that you don’t come too soon and that you retain a hard erection. If you struggle with that, check out these 2 articles:
On to the afterplay:
Tip: If you’d like to try out anal sex, it’s good to learn how to make her squirt first. Anal is a lot easier after she’s had a squirting orgasm.
Step 7: What to Do After Squirting
Please note. Do NOT skip this step.
Why Afterplay is Important
As you know, women are a little more sensitive than us men. Things that can seem completely unimportant to us can be a big deal for them, even if we didn’t mean it that way. Afterplay is one such thing.
If you do it, you’re showing her you care about her. Emotionally, not just sexually.
It’s also VERY important to do a lot of afterplay if you want to make a woman squirt more often. If you skip it, she might think you thought it was gross, or that you don’t appreciate her.
This is what you do:
How Should You Learn to Squirt?
Every woman can learn to squirt. Use the following 5 tips:
1. Be Relaxed
It may sound stupid, but having squirting orgasms is more about mental aspects than physical. You have to be properly relaxed, and let it happen. Because it’s impossible if you’re tense.
If you’re apprehensive about the squirting itself, ask your friends or look up other women’s experiences. Most women really enjoy it.
2. Do Kegel Exercises
Kegel exercises are a form of training for your pelvic floor muscles. If you make these muscles stronger, you’ll have stronger and better orgasms. (And there are many more advantages).
Read this article for a step-by-step training schedule and examples of kegel exercises.
3. Go to the Bathroom Beforehand
This will help you relax properly, because you don’t have to be anxious about pee.
Because when you’re about to come later, it will feel like you have to pee. This way you’ll know that, when you have this feeling, it’s because you’re about to come.
4. The Right Position & Technique
Lie down on your back. Put your ring finger and middle finger in your vagina. Slowly push them in the direction of your navel. Make sure the palm of your hand presses up against your body (and clitoris).
Keep going in circles, and keep applying pressure to the front of (the inside of) your vagina. You’ll be able to feel this better than anyone.
5. Let Yourself Go
When you feel a squirting orgasm coming, let yourself go completely. Don’t try to ‘keep it inside’, so to speak, but rather ‘push it out’.
If it feels like you have to pee, that’s a good thing. Keep going, and you’ll have a squirting orgasm.
Congratulations. The next step is practicing with your boyfriend (show him this article, and tell him you’d like to try it with him).
And for the men who are reading this article, there is a bonus cheat sheet:
How to Get Her Addicted to Sex With You
If you want to make a woman come hard, there is one more trick I haven’t shared with you yet. And it works very well in combination with these squirting techniques.
It’s a simple trick – consisting of 3 steps – which will get her ridiculously excited and give her a very hard (squirting orgasm).
It’s called “The Three Secret Touches”
This video is series of steps that are guaranteed to turn any woman on.
And the best thing about it?
Afterwards she will literally be addicted to sex with you (and nothing or no one else).
It will bring passion back to your relationship. And if you’re single, you’ll get message after message, because she’ll want to see you again.
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